The Great Equalizer
Every so often, it taps us on the shoulder. We are startled and shaken, and left to wonder.......again. Sometimes, it isn't so gentle, and blindsides us with a sucker punch to the gut. But, there is no mistaking it. We avoid the topic at all costs. We wish we didn't have to talk about it, or think about it. But we can't help it, because as humans it is, and remains, one of those mysteries of life that cannot be fully understood. It defies all boundaries of race, wealth, demographic. It is not reserved for the old or necessarily terminal. We can be certain of it; we just don't know the time. Another dear friend has passed. Today he will be buried, along with plenty of unfulfilled hopes and dreams. One day building a vacation home, next day planning a golf game. And he is gone. Retired early by some measures, and anxious to enjoy the coming years in relaxation, comfort, and celebration. Gone. Can we rationalize this, or do we ...